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Saturday, February 22, 2025

Identifying Spiritual Ego

Identifying Spiritual Ego

Hakann trough A. S.

Posted on February 22, 2025

 


My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Hakann speaking. I greet you in peace and love.

To encourage open-mindedness, I would like to start with an observation.

Likely you believe that the person you were ten years ago had some unresolved issues, had some completely wrong opinions and had a lower level of consciousness than you do now. And most likely you are correct about these things.

You are likely correct that you have grown in the last ten years. Just think of who you were and where you were ten years ago. And it is great that so many of you have grown substantially. I applaud you for that.

Well, similarly, it is highly likely that the person you will be in ten years, will look at the current you as a person who had some unresolved issue, who had some completely wrong opinions and / or who had a lower level of consciousness.

And again, likely this will be correct.

This suggests that most likely the person you are today… may have some unresolved issues, wrong opinions and / or doesn’t have as high a level of consciousness as you will have later in life.

I would invite you to be open-minded to that possibility.

To be clear, that doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you. The person you are right now is already good enough, is already an amazing person, and is already worthy of love. As you are right now. And also, in the future, you will be even more evolved than you are today.

Even if you perhaps have some unresolved issues, some growth left to do and some wrong opinions… even then you are amazing, you are fully worthy of love and you are good enough. As you are right now.

With that in mind:

I discussed what a spiritual ego is in my previous message “Hakann: Spiritual ego.” To recap, spiritual ego is when a person has an unrealistically high opinion of themselves due to their spirituality.

In today’s message, I would like to invite you to try and observe a few things within yourself. This can help you identify and help dissolve any spiritual ego you might have. Perhaps you don’t have any spiritual ego, or perhaps you do, or perhaps an inner part of you does. If you do have some traces of spiritual ego, that is actually quite normal; many people do, perhaps even most spiritual people do.

1: Observe within yourself if there is a part of you that feels that you have reached the spiritual top and there is no further growth or knowledge to be gained.

You might instantly become aware of such a part. Or you can ask yourself: “is there a part of me that feels that I have reached the spiritual top and there is no further growth or knowledge to be gained?” Any answer that immediately arises in you could be a genuine answer.

If neither of those options work, you can also think back if those sorts of thoughts crossed your mind recently. Or you can keep this in mind in the following days.

It is of course also entirely possible that you genuinely don’t have these thoughts or such a part. That is genuinely true for some people. And in this case, great.

If you notice you do have a part inside yourself, or you have thoughts that you already have reached the spiritual top and there is no further growth to be gained… well, first of all observe it without immediately trying to change it or disagree with it or lecture it or condemn it. Just observe it.

And if you can, give yourself and it some love. Acknowledge how far you’ve come — because yes, you really are amazing already, as you are right now. After all, most people on Earth haven’t woken up, and you have to at least a significant extent.

Looking at yourself honestly and giving yourself kudos and congratulations for what you have accomplished already, is a fine and indeed very beneficial practice. So long as you’re doing this in a realistic way, it will not inflate your ego. In fact giving yourself acknowledgement and congratulations and love for how far you have come already can help dissolve any spiritual ego you might have. And if you have a safe relationship with a loved one, you can also ask them for love and acknowledgement.

You don’t necessarily need to go out and tell strangers what you have done. But just acknowledging what you have accomplished to yourself is healthy. It is healthy to have a realistic self-esteem, viewed through a neutral and not through a hyper-critical lens.

2: Observe within yourself if there is a part of you that judges other people

You can do this in the same way that you did the last question.

If you don’t judge others, great.

If you find that you do, well, again, observe it without immediately judging it. And give yourself love and acknowledgement.

It is entirely possible that at this stage you will not yet be able to fully get rid of judgements. This channeler isn’t able to fully get rid of all his judgments. Sure, he could tell himself that he shouldn’t judge — but that would just push his judgements into his unconscious where it would become part of his shadow. What you resist, persists.

In general, telling yourself that you shouldn’t have bad thoughts or emotions will just make them unconscious, and then you might superficially appear more righteous but in fact that won’t get you any closer to higher levels of spiritual attainment.

Instead, it’s healthy to be conscious of your own judgements, to observe them, and to be wise enough to try and not let it influence your behavior or your words, and to treat others as fairly and lovingly as possible in your words and actions.

In the long term, you can get rid of your judgments by removing so many inner barriers and blockages that you are overflowing with love and bliss, and then judging others will not seem sensible anymore. How do you get there? Observe, breathe deeply and slowly every day, and do your spiritual practice. You can also do Onion healing, as I described in my article “Hakann: Onion healing.”

Or you could learn and embody that Earth humans really are just immortal reincarnating souls having human experiences through their human lower selves, and therefore there’s no need to be judgemental even against people doing harmful things. Sure you may still want to stop those who would harm innocents, but that doesn’t mean that you feel judgemental against evil doers, or feel that you are superior to them.

Still, actually embodying these things (and not just rationally understanding them) will probably take some time still. So for now, just observe. You also don’t need to tell the people who you’re judging that you are in fact judging them.

Yes, you shouldn’t lie, but that doesn’t mean that you need to tell everything to everyone. Just be fair in your words and actions, and if you have some unloving thoughts in your mind then that is something to observe — and by observing it, perhaps repeatedly, you will eventually let it go automatically.

3: Observe within yourself if there is a group of people that you feel hostility towards.

To be clear, it is entirely fine to think that certain political movements or organizations are wrong or are net harmful. That statement is literally true when applied to certain movements or organizations.

However, it becomes excessive if you label every single person within that group as evil, which usually isn’t the case (unless you’re specifically talking about the dark controllers or certain other specific evil organizations). So: not every Democrat, or Republican, is evil and is a net negative influence. Not every man is bad. Not every woman is bad. Not every Jew is bad. Not every immigrant is bad. Et cetera.

Now sure, certain individuals in these groups may very well be bad. Still, it may not be your path to go and fight evil-doers. Even if it is, well, you can disagree with or oppose certain people without actively feeling hostility or emotional anger towards them. Because what value does hostility or emotional anger add? Sure, it may be good to stop certain evil-doers, but you can also do that without hostility or emotional anger. Though again, if you do feel hostility or anger, just observe.

Why is this related to spiritual ego? Well, if you judge an entire group of people as bad, then that is a way to elevate yourself above them, and to label yourself as superior to millions or even billions of people.

It is also useful to note that the media will likely only point to particularly bad people, which can skew your perception. For example, if twenty immigrants are obeying the law and working hard and trying to immigrate, and one immigrant does something outrageous, then the news will only tell you about the one immigrant who did something outrageous. Now you might still feel that illegal immigration is bad, which is a reasonable position to have, but it’s possible to have that position without labeling all immigrants as bad, or having a visceral dislike of them as some people do.

I get that some people are scared, but ultimately, you are an immortal soul who can’t be harmed. On a fundamental level, you are safe no matter what happens.

Similarly, it’s not a noteworthy news story that a decent, loving family man does his best to help and love and provide for his family. But it is a noteworthy story that an evil male CEO did something horrible, or that some crazy man murdered multiple people somewhere. So the latter stories are the only stories about men you’ll see in the media, even though the kind family man is far more common than either an evil CEO man or a murderer.

Similarly, most Jews are simply kind and decent people. Most Jews aren’t CEOs or prime ministers of Israel.

If you feel hostility towards some group, it can help to do a little bit of research about what life is like for an average person in that group. Perhaps go talk in a respectful way to some of them, in real life and online.

And then ask yourself: if you were an average person in that group, how would you want the outside world to treat your group?

4: Next time you encounter new information, observe how you process that information.

Most people simply react emotionally to new information. If the information is emotionally pleasing or beneficial or worldview-confirming, then the new information is assumed to be true. If the information is emotionally unpleasing or non-beneficial or goes against the established worldview, then the new information is assumed to be false.

This sounds cynical, but this is literally how it works for the vast majority of people. Including many people who think they are very fair or rational or scientific or unbiased. And also including many people who think they are very spiritual.

Now yes, it is possible to be so in tune with your intuition or your guidance that it is your intuition or guidance that processes new information. And if you’re there, that’s great. That’s amazing.

However most spiritual people still process information on an emotional level. Sure they might dress that up as saying “oh this information doesn’t resonate”, but that’s often just a rationalization for discarding things that emotionally don’t feel good, whether they’re true or false.

Genuine intuition is rare. Usually when people call something intuition then they’re really just referring to their emotions.

Yes, it’s possible to be so in tune that true things resonate and false things don’t. Some people are at that stage. However, most spiritual people are not.

In fact, most people who say they are very objective or fair or unbiased or intuitive in fact are quite biased and are often led by their emotions. Whereas if a person says that they are biased and they’re merely pretending to be as objective as possible, likely that person is more fair than a person who labels themselves as unbiased.

Note that it is completely fine to say that you simply don’t know whether certain things are true or not. It’s completely fine to not have an opinion, or to not have a strong opinion on a certain topic. And it is completely fine to say that you don’t care enough about a certain topic to spend the time to study it, because after all the true gems and the true treasure lies within. Acquiring knowledge about the outside world is useful to an extent, but ultimately fulfilment and happiness is found by going within.

5: Observe whether you apply different rules to yourself than you apply to other people.

A spiritually egoic person might believe that if they feel the urge to be harsh towards someone, then they should indeed be harsh towards that person, and the harsh words were channeled or divinely guided or it was necessary tough love that was for the person’s highest good.

But if someone else is harsh towards the spiritually egoic person, now suddenly a different set of rules apply. Now suddenly those harsh words are unspiritual and low-consciousness and people should act loving and respectful towards others.

Similarly, a spiritually egoic person might believe that if unpleasant things happen to other people, then that is always for their highest good, or it’s deserved because it’s karma, or it’s beneficial for them because they need to learn some lesson.

But then if an unpleasant thing happens to the spiritual person himself or herself, now suddenly a different set of rules apply. Now suddenly it’s an injustice that shouldn’t have happened, and it only came about because someone else did something wrong and evil.

A spiritual person may claim they believe that everything that happens is always for the person’s highest good. However, this spiritual person probably locks his or her front door at night, thereby proving that he or she does not actually believe that anything that happens to him or her is for his or her highest good.

If you apply different rules to yourself than you apply to other people, then that is a form of spiritual ego. After all, you’re giving yourself a special kind of elevated status above the masses. Even though you’re likely not the most spiritually advanced person on the planet. Most likely you aren’t yet radiating love to the extent that other people comment on it, for example.

Even if you have some kind of psychic ability unlocked… well, that by itself doesn’t make you a spiritual master. Lots of people who still have quite a far way to go on the spiritual path have psychic abilities unlocked. Furthermore, you’re certainly not the only person on the planet with unlocked psychic abilities.

Remember the Dunning-Kruger effect: people who have just started to develop a small amount of skill in an area typically rate themselves as being very good at that thing. This is because they’re not skilled enough yet to see all the things they haven’t mastered yet. Conversely, an actually skilled person will likely be somewhat humble and will be very aware of all the things he doesn’t know yet or doesn’t do optimally yet.

So if you think you are super advanced in the spiritual field and there is little left for you to learn, but you’re not regularly getting compliments from others about how they love your presence and treasure your words, then most likely you are in fact relatively new on the spiritual path. And that is completely fine — everyone was new, once. And even a person who is serious about spirituality, and also quite new, is in a sense ahead of the average person who isn’t interested in spirituality. Still, it is good to realize that the spiritual road can be very long, and that even if you have taken some substantial steps already, that doesn’t necessarily make you a master.

Still, I applaud everyone who is on the spiritual path. And most likely that includes you if you’re tuning in to these messages. So, great job. I applaud you and I respect you.

Even if you’re not yet a spiritual master at this moment — even then you are still an amazing person, because you have started climbing the mountain in a world where most people haven’t. You are already good enough, and you are already fully worthy of love.

Your star brother,
Hakann

A. S.

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Saturday, December 21, 2024

Avoid the Spiritual Ego

Avoid the Spiritual Ego

The Creators (12D)

A Nonphysical Collective Consciousness

Channel: Daniel Scranton

Posted on December 21, 2024

Credits: Collective Consciousness Illustration, Faces Surrounding the Earth ...dreamstime.com
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We are here for you. We are The Creators. We are a twelfth-dimensional collective of nonphysical beings, and we are here to help. 
 
You have been on a path for a very long time. Your path did not begin when you woke up in this lifetime. Your path began so very long ago that it would be difficult to quantify it in a number of years. The journey is always changing because you enjoy variety and you enjoy challenges. You do want to fathom how old you really are so that you can understand how wise you really are, how masterful you really are. In order to do that, you must see yourself as being bigger than this singular incarnation would indicate.

You are meant to see yourself as a multidimensional, eternal, infinite being. You are meant to see yourself as light and love. That doesn’t mean that you need to destroy your ego or bury your ego, but it does mean that you need to use that sense of self that the ego is to expand, to move into your natural self. Your true self is Divine. Your true self is everything, and therefore, when you at least open up to that idea, you can take yourself and your life less seriously and start enjoying the fun ride that you are on.

Now, we know that you have to make it fun, because it’s not always presenting itself to you as a giant amusement park. But when you consider how much you have already done, how much you have already achieved as an eternal being, you must realize that making this life fun and enjoyable is a small task by comparison to how much you have already accomplished. You need to give yourselves more credit and elevate your sense of self without getting caught up in spiritual ego. Spiritual ego would tell you that you are the savior, that you are better, or more spiritual than everyone else.

You don’t want to get caught up in that egoic trap either. We are all Source, and we are all one, and there is nothing higher than that. And you don’t have to figure out who you’ve been in every dimension and in every lifetime in order to know yourself. You do want to feel for the love that you are in order to know yourself more completely, and that’s something that is a lifelong pursuit. You want to know yourself as love in the face of hate, in the face of discrimination, in the face of abandonment.  These are real challenges. These are the things that your life is really about. And yes, as a result of doing all of that work of just being yourself in the face of whatever is in front of you, you do get to ascend.

You get to know yourself as more, experientially and in a more permanent way, than you do when you just choose love in a particular moment. Now, people there on Earth often get caught up in what they are supposed to do, but it is so much more important for you to focus on who you are supposed to be, and then let the doing come from that. But don’t see the doing as what life is all about. You can also see the expression of the true self as being significant, because it is, and that can be expressed in a smile, in kind words that you speak, in compassion that you feel or healing that you send.

Relax and know that you are loved because you are love, and don’t get so caught up in the details of your life, of anyone’s life. You don’t even need to get caught up in the human condition, in the human struggle, that you sometimes see all of humanity embroiled in, because it’s all good. It’s all serving the greater good. The highest good will always be served whether you ask that it be or not.

If we were to summarize, and give you our teachings in a nutshell, we would say – be curious about yourselves; be curious about life. Be curious about exploring who and what you really are, and don’t worry about mistakes or missteps. Don’t worry about getting it wrong, because as we said, it always serves the highest good, and you can tell whether you are moving towards that highest good or not by how you are feeling in the moment.

We are The Creators, and we love you very much.
 
Daniel Scranton 
 
 

Friday, December 20, 2024

Spiritual Ego

Spiritual Ego

Hakann trough A. S.

Posted on December 21 , 2024

 


My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Hakann speaking. I greet you in peace and love.

As I shared last week: Earth humans are an exceptional group, and as Earth humans who have at least partially woken up, you are an exceptional group within that exceptional group.

You are not perfect, but you are amazing, and you are good enough, and you are fully worthy of love, as you are right now.

Now, one issue that many partially awakened people struggle with is having a slight spiritual ego. Most spiritual people don’t have an extreme spiritual ego, but most spiritual people do have a slight spiritual ego.

Spiritual ego is when a person has an unrealistically high opinion of themselves due to their spirituality.

It is not spiritual ego to have a realistic opinion of yourself and to acknowledge your skills and qualities and abilities and knowledge.

You don’t need to brag about your skills to others, but you should quietly acknowledge them to yourself.

For example, it is not spiritual ego to think that you are more spiritually advanced than the average person on Earth is, because indeed you are if you are tuning in to messages like these.

A person who makes a show out of being very humble may in fact have a form of spiritual ego, because it’s entirely possible that they secretly have an unrealistically high opinion of themselves, and that’s why they make a show out of being very humble.

Alternatively, if a person genuinely has an unrealistically low opinion of themselves, then that’s not spiritual ego but it is another kind of distortion. The world needs your light: it is not a virtue to keep your light dimmed, or to refuse to acknowledge that it is there.

So it is healthy to have a realistic opinion of yourself. That means acknowledging that you are better at spirituality and at certain things than most people, while also acknowledging that some non-spiritual people may have qualities and skills that you do not have.

And it means that you acknowledge that while you are better at spirituality than the average person, that doesn’t mean that you are a better person than them, or that you are more valuable than other people. All roads lead back to Source, after all, and you are not better than another person who is choosing to take a longer route back to Source.

Having a realistic opinion about yourself also means that you don’t automatically assume that everyone else around you is less spiritually advanced than you are. A person with spiritual ego often assumes that everyone who has another perspective is spiritually inferior to them, and needs to receive education or healing or they need to do inner work.

Often a person with spiritual ego will express this in a superficially loving, but actually quite condescending way. If you present a substantive argument to a person with spiritual ego on why you think they’re wrong about something, they probably will not answer with a substantive counterargument, or with an “agree to disagree” statement. Instead they might express that they used to think like that, but now they are more evolved. Or they might say that they are a reflector or a mirror and that it’s their nature to bring up unresolved stuff in other people.

Or they might say that you should work through your triggers (even if you’re not actually triggered). Or they might say that they hope that you will find healing or find a proper path. Or they might tell you that you need to read some book in order to educate yourself. Or they might say “it’s okay if you can’t understand this.” Or they might say that only people who vibrate at a high enough frequency will see the truth in their statement. Or they might say “I don’t do this, it only seems that way to you” when in fact they clearly are doing the thing that is being pointed out.

Or they might claim that all their words are always rightly guided or are always channeled or are always for the highest benefit of everyone involved. However they won’t believe that the words of other people are divinely guided or channeled or are for people’s highest benefit.

Or they might say that because something resonates with them, or because their guides or intuition say something, everyone else should consider that thing to be objectively proven. Meanwhile if someone else says that it doesn’t resonate with them, or that their guides or intuition disagree, then that isn’t considered valid proof of anything.

So these are all ways in which someone with spiritual ego expresses that they are better than the other person, without ever making an actual substantive argument for why they are right in this case or why they are more spiritually advanced. And they’re doing it in a sneaky enough way that they don’t appear unspiritual to a casual onlooker.

To be clear, expressing public disagreement with someone else, using substantive arguments, is fine. You don’t have to do that, but you can, and it doesn’t indicate the presence of a spiritual ego. People can learn from substantive debates, including onlookers who aren’t directly participating in the debate. This is how good ideas are spread and bad ideas are discredited. If no one ever publicly disagrees with anyone else, bad ideas can spread far too widely.

So as we’ve seen, if you disagree with a person with spiritual ego, they will typically respond in a subtly-condescending, non-substantive way. A person without a spiritual ego can respond in a variety of ways, or even not respond at all, but they won’t respond in a subtly-condescending way.

A person who says that they are learning from literally everyone they come across may be in spiritual ego, because that’s almost certainly not actually true, and hence they’re expressing an unrealistically high opinion of themselves. A spiritually healthy person will learn from certain people, and not learn from others. Some people will have valuable lessons to teach you, and others will not.

Now, an issue here is that people with a spiritual ego may falsely believe that they in fact do have a realistic opinion of themselves, and it’s simply the objective truth that they are more spiritually advanced than pretty much everyone else.

Most likely you cannot cure someone else of their spiritual ego.

If you yourself think that you are more spiritually advanced than pretty much everyone else, well, do you regularly feel a profound sense of peace? Do other people love being around you because your presence just feels wonderful to them? Are lots of other people regularly complimenting you on your words and telling you that they are benefiting from what you are saying and writing? Only if you answered yes to all three question, then you may indeed be near the spiritual top of Earth. But even that’s not ultimate attainment; one fully enlightened and fully Source-aligned Earth human could and probably would free the planet single-handedly.

Next up, let us look at certain flavors of spiritual ego. People may have one, several or none of the following flavors of spiritual ego:

DUNNING-KRUGER SPIRITUAL EGO

This is a person who is relatively new to spirituality. A short while ago they had their first insight, or their first really good meditation experience, or they recently discovered a spiritual principle that they really resonate with.

Because of this, the person with Dunning-Kruger spiritual ego will think they are much more advanced than they actually are, because they do not yet have enough knowledge or wisdom to understand just how much they don’t yet know about spirituality.

Here is the Dunning-Kruger graph: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_Effect_01.svg . A person suffering from the Dunning Kruger effect is on the small hill to the left, characterized by a lack of competence due to newness, and an incredibly high confidence.

People with Dunning-Kruger spiritual ego may talk as if their insight is the one true insight that everyone else needs to learn, and every other perspective is inferior. When in reality, their insight is probably just one valuable perspective out of many. And more experienced spiritual people will likely have learned that principle long ago, and now it’s just one valuable perspective out of many to them.

A person with Dunning-Kruger spiritual ego might act like any sort of real-world or practical perspective is a 3D perspective and therefore bad, while their very high and not practically applicable perspective is the one sole truth of the universe.

A person with Dunning-Kruger spiritual ego might have recently started following some kind of guidance or intuition, and may falsely believe they are the only person to do so, and may therefore believe they’re some kind of spiritual master who everyone should listen to. When in reality, lots of people receive guidance or have intuition.

Moreover, even if a person sometimes receives genuine guidance, then typically that doesn’t mean that every single action they take and every single word they say is coming from that guidance. More likely they only receive and then follow that guidance occasionally, and probably the rest of the time they are just being driven by their emotions and their subconscious. Which might be quite fallible.

Also, people are guided based on where they currently are. So if a person is being guided to meditate for ten minutes per day, that doesn’t prove that ten minutes of meditation per day is the one and only true spiritual practice that everyone should follow. Obviously this is a silly example, but people with Dunning-Kruger spiritual ego really might falsely believe that a path that is good for them, is the one true path that everyone should follow.

If this person then follows their guidance and indeed meditates for ten minutes, this doesn’t prove that they are a spiritual master who is living non-stop in alignment with their guidance. It just means that they got personalized advice based on where they were at the time, and they followed that advice. That’s all.

Obviously treat everyone with love, and definitely also treat someone like this with love, because likely they’re not malicious. Likely they’re just new to the spiritual field. And it’s entirely possible that they will grow out of this as they become more experienced.

LOVE ME SPIRITUAL EGO

This is a person who wants love and compliments and validation from other people. Therefore, they may engage in performative spirituality. They might adopt a spiritual persona and put on a theatrical act to show others how spiritually advanced they are.

This person is probably spiritual in an unoriginal way, because after all they’re putting on a subconscious act of what they think a spiritually advanced person looks like. So they’ll repeat whatever the current spiritual trends are. They’ll say things that make them look spiritually advanced to the average spiritual person. But they probably won’t say anything that is insightful and original.

Whereas a spiritual master is probably original in some way: they may have some new teaching, they may have a subtle disagreement with a respected existing teaching, they may present themselves in an unconventional way, they may have an unconventional focus, et cetera.

A spiritual master may say or do or advocate for things that don’t immediately appear as the highest and most spiritually advanced thing to the average person. The master doesn’t care, because he isn’t interested in impressing the crowd, unlike the person with “love me” spiritual ego.

A “love me” spiritual ego person may seem to have an entire personality that only revolves around being spiritually advanced. Meanwhile an actually spiritually advanced person is more complex and is a more multifaceted person.

A person with “love me” spiritual ego likely dresses in a way that makes them look spiritual. A person without spiritual ego won’t necessarily dress in a stereotypically spiritual way — although they might still dress like that if they happen to like that kind of clothing.

A person with “love me” spiritual ego may say things that make others look less spiritually advanced than themselves. This way, the “love me” spiritual ego person gets a larger share of the group’s appreciation and respect. So for example, they might say in a sneaky and roundabout way that because someone else reacted emotionally to something, that proves they aren’t very spiritually advanced.

Meanwhile a spiritually advanced person won’t personally attack others, but they may attack what they consider to be wrong or unhelpful ideas, using substantive arguments. After all, doing that is actually a service to others or a service to the public, if it’s done by someone who knows what they are talking about.

People with “love me” spiritual ego may believe in spiritual principles that are clearly illogical or are clearly stated in an exaggerated form, just because those principles sound emotionally pleasant and empowering. People with “love me” spiritual ego may be excessively focused on “love and light” and on things that feel good. They may be in resistance to reasonable disagreements or unpleasant truths.

If you tell a person with “love me” spiritual ego that you think they are wrong about something or that they have some unresolved issue or that they’re not being reasonable or genuine, then that person might internally freak out. They may become angry or hostile or condescending or perhaps break off contact with you permanently – while putting on a show and responding in a seemingly spiritually advanced way.

So let’s say a person with “love me” spiritual ego is putting on a performative spirituality show. And if you point out that they’re not being genuine and are perhaps being condescending in some way, it’s entirely possible that they won’t self-reflect, or have a conversation about it with you, or just say they disagree. Instead they might inform you that they simply no longer resonate with you but that you are a great person and they wish you all the best in the world. And then they might never speak to you again.

To be clear, it’s not inherently wrong to say that you no longer resonate with something or someone.

However, the vast majority of spiritual people are merely at the point where what resonates with them is usually good and truthful, and what doesn’t resonate with them is merely usually bad or false. Few spiritual people are at the point where what resonates is always good and truthful, and what doesn’t resonate is always bad or false.

So there are spiritual people who avoid looking within by simply saying that they don’t resonate with the person making the argument and then ignoring the actual argument being made.

The words “I don’t resonate” can certainly be used properly, but sometimes the person saying those words isn’t actually being driven by intuition or guidance. Sometimes they’re simply being driven by emotion, and are saying “it doesn’t resonate” to avoid self-reflection or self-observation.

What emotionally feels good isn’t always true or beneficial. What emotionally feels bad isn’t always false or bad. And focusing on things that emotionally feel good, and avoiding things that emotionally feel bad, isn’t always the best thing to do — even if it’s dressed up in spiritual language such as “keeping your vibration high”, “this resonates and that doesn’t”, et cetera.

Most people, including most spiritual people, are more often being driven by emotion than they are aware of. And emotions are often self-protecting or self-serving in some way, rather than being concerned with what’s actually true.

If someone who isn’t a spiritual master says “this doesn’t resonate” or “this doesn’t feel good”, then other people understand that it’s not objective truth that that thing or idea is universally bad. People understand that a sort of subjective statement is being made. Well, similarly, if you’re not a spiritual master yourself, then what resonates with you and what feels good to you also is probably a mostly-accurate indicator, but not an always-accurate indicator.

MAINTAIN STATUS SPIRITUAL EGO

If a person has a certain spiritual status in the eyes of others, they may feel the need to engage in performative spirituality to maintain that status.

For example, a spiritual teacher may feel the urge to constantly present themselves in a way that makes them look spiritually advanced to other people. They do this to maintain their status and their position and perhaps their income.

Or a person who has a relationship with a somewhat judgmental spiritual partner may feel the urge to present themselves in a spiritual way.

Or someone who is a member of a spiritual community or spiritual group may feel an urge to keep up appearances.

This can cause a person to make claims like “I don’t have an ego” or “I don’t judge” when clearly they still do. They might say “I am not invested in the outcome” when clearly they are. Or the person might claim to be objective and unbiased when they clearly aren’t. Or a person might claim that every waking moment of theirs is a magical experience, or some other hyperbole like that.

Or a person may claim that they are one hundred percent grateful for something awful that happened to them, because they learned from it and it made them who they are. When in reality, probably some part of them is genuinely grateful for it, and some other part of them is still hurt about it or wished it hadn’t happened.

A person may be consciously or subconsciously trying to maintain their status in this way.

They can consciously decide to only share happy and fun and positive things, and not ever talk about painful or difficult things.

Or they might subconsciously reason: “well I wouldn’t be a very good spiritual teacher if I had that flaw. Therefore I can’t have that flaw, because I am a good spiritual teacher.” So basically, this spiritual teacher refuses to look at any part of themselves that isn’t or doesn’t look spiritually advanced. They feel that spiritual teachers can’t have certain flaws, and so they refuse to acknowledge any hint of those flaws in themselves, even if they’re there.

That said, this is understandable to an extent, because spiritual teachers often rely on being a spiritual teacher for their income. This means that their income depends on putting on a show of performative spirituality — because most people do in fact get fooled by that. And many people do in fact stop listening to a spiritual teacher if that spiritual teacher admits to having certain flaws or struggles.

MAINTAIN SELF IMAGE SPIRITUAL EGO

This is a person who has only received conditional love. They only received love if they were good enough in some way.

As a result, they only love themselves if they judge themselves to be good enough.

So this person will love themselves if they are spiritually advanced, and they don’t love themselves if they’re not sufficiently spiritually advanced.

As a result, this person has an unrealistically high opinion about themselves. Because that’s what they need to be able to love themselves.

Obviously this person, like everyone else, deserves love and compassion.

On the other hand, it can be quite frustrating to deal with this person. For example, this person may clearly judge you, but then tell you that they don’t judge, and that there’s something wrong with you if you think they are judging you.

They may declare that everyone is perfect just as they are, but then they clearly judge other people, and then deny that they are judging other people. Even though they’re clearly doing so.

Why are they acting like this? Well, they’ve told themselves that spiritually advanced people don’t judge, and they feel they can only love themselves if they are spiritually advanced. So they have to believe they’re not judging others, even if they clearly are doing so, in order to maintain their self image. This can lead them to having an out-of-control shadow and them gaslighting the people around them.

Another form of “maintain self image” spiritual ego is someone who thinks that they don’t have any inner parts that are unevolved, are in pain, are conflicted, et cetera. They pretend that they have healed all their wounds and integrated all their inner parts. They may tell you that they USED to have certain unresolved issues in some way, but that’s always in the past, and today they’re completely aligned. But then if you watch this person act, it usually becomes obvious that they do in fact have certain inner parts that are in pain or aren’t aligned.

“Maintain self image” spiritual ego people may be quite judgmental in a subtle and subconscious way, because if they don’t accept certain things in themselves they may also not accept these things in others. In fact they might subconsciously try to help others in a perverse way: “don’t be X, because if you’re X then you’re not good enough and not worthy of love.” Or “you should be Y, because if you’re Y then you’re good enough and worthy of love.” It’s almost like they’re trying to force their religious dogma onto you.

A person with “maintain self image” spiritual ego will nudge you to suppress so-called bad thoughts or emotions, for example by telling you to raise your vibration, or by saying that if you focus on something bad then it grows or negative things then manifest. They might say that your thoughts and feelings create your reality, therefore you should focus on thinking and feeling positive things. In this way they imply that you should suppress so-called bad thoughts or emotions.

Meanwhile, a spiritually advanced person will nudge you to observe everything that arises in you, including so-called bad thoughts and emotions. Because that’s actually the way in which you let go of these things, over time.

Whereas if you suppress so-called negative thoughts or emotions, they will still affect what manifests in your life from your subconscious. Your subconscious affects your reality and manifestations too, so suppressing things and focusing on positive thoughts and feelings doesn’t actually help.

If a person wants to help strangers in a way that violates their free will, that may be a “maintain self image” spiritual ego person, because it is a kind of power trip and self-image boost for them.

“Maintain self image” spiritual people may have a savior complex. They may be excessively emotionally invested in making sure that everyone hears their words.

They may have the tendency to give unsolicited advice excessively often — usually that should only be done if you’ve listened extensively to that person first and are very sure that you’re coming from a good place and have good advice.

Substantively disagreeing with bad ideas is fine, pointing out that people are being condescending is fine, but unsolicited advice is usually (though not always) unhelpful.

In an ideal world, the person with “maintain self image” spiritual ego would receive enough unconditional love that they realize they are already worthy of love, as they are right now, even if they have certain flaws.

SO, WHAT SHOULD I DO?

So, what should you do? Well, observe what arises in you. Be honest and authentic. Have an accurate self-image, where you view yourself as neither more accomplished nor less accomplished than you actually are. Have opinions, but at the same time realize that they might be wrong or that a more enlightened person than yourself might look at things differently. Accept the possibility that on certain points others may be right and you may be wrong.

If you don’t know a lot about a topic, listen. If you do know a lot about a topic, it’s still important to listen, but then don’t be afraid to speak and to publicly disagree with unhelpful ideas, using substantive arguments.

Now, it’s entirely understandable that many people have a spiritual ego, because most people haven’t received all the love and nourishment and care that humans need. Really, the amount of love that a human needs to function optimally is much larger than you probably think, and probably you haven’t nearly received that amount of love in your life.

Your scientists say that it is healthy to have five or ten or even twenty warm interactions with someone for every negative interaction you have with them. A warm interaction might be giving someone a compliment, or spending quality time with them, or giving them a hug, or joking with them in a friendly manner.

Now, how many people give five or ten or twenty compliments (or similar) for each time they criticize the other person, or point towards something they should work on? Not many. Hence, it makes sense that many people feel underloved and underappreciated.

Now, criticizing someone, or pointing to something they should work on, is sometimes the absolutely correct thing to do. But it can also come from a place of ego, from a place of thinking you know better than the other person, from a place of wanting control, or from a place of thinking the other person is a fool who is lost without your help.

Indeed, while some people may feel inclined to often criticize others or point out flaws in them, people very rarely want to be on the receiving end of that. People rarely want others to criticize them or point out flaws in them, except for times when it’s urgent or very necessary or when the time is very ripe.

And indeed, that isn’t just vanity. People are actually correct in feeling that it’s best for them if other people are usually loving and complimentary towards them and only occasionally criticize them or point out flaws in them.

This channeler regularly interacts with a Pleiadian outside of the context of channeling. She sees that the channeler is already growing and progressing and finding his own way, and that his own system is nudging him towards healing and that his guides are nudging him towards truth and further growth, at the appropriate pace. And this is true for many people, it’s not just true for this channeler.

So nearly every interaction she has towards him is warm and affectionate and complimentary and loving and appreciative. Almost never (but not literally never) is she pointing out flaws or things he could work on. Even though there is certainly stuff she could point out.

Her approach is actually more beneficial for his growth than if she would have been more critical, because being loved is a need that humans have, and this way he is getting that need met. And his own system and his own guides are already nudging him towards truth and healing and growth — he doesn’t need another person to point out flaws, except in rare circumstances.

Most people already know plenty of domains they could self-improve in. What they lack isn’t knowledge of things they could work on, instead they lack the metaphorical resources to work on those things to a large extent. And by being loving towards someone, you give them more resources to develop themselves with. Sure they might spend those resources slightly differently than you would, but that’s their free-will choice to make.

If you value someone, trust them to find their path.

But, yes. To tie this all together: most people are underloved. And so it makes sense that people behave in spiritually egoic ways to try and get more love and appreciation. Especially because people on Earth aren’t getting the support or recognition or community that they deserve.

At the same time, having a spiritual ego can hinder your spiritual growth and can stand in the way of making healthy connections. And it can also seriously annoy the people around you. Because it’s not fun to be around someone who is being inauthentic and condescending and i8s perhaps even gaslighting you.

So, I would like to invite you to be aware of spiritual ego, and to keep observing what arises within. If you detect some spiritual ego within yourself, that is entirely understandable. In fact many people have a spiritual ego to at least a slight extent. Just observe it and it should weaken over time, and try to be fair in your words and actions. You’re never bad for having certain thoughts or emotions; it is only needlessly hurtful words and actions that are bad.

I hope this was helpful. I love you very much.

Your star brother,
Hakann

A. S.

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